Let’s be honest—what’s it really like around your dinner table these days?
Are the kids quietly picking at their food while scrolling imaginary screens in their minds? Is it more of a silent chew-fest with the occasional “pass the salt”? Or maybe it’s a chaotic mix of spilled juice, knock-knock jokes, and someone loudly complaining about broccoli?
Whether your dinner hour is more “Holy hush” or “Holy moly, what just happened?”—you’re not alone.
At our house, we’ve had all the versions. Some nights, it’s deep conversation. Other nights, it’s mostly ketchup and chaos. But we’ve found one thing that changes the entire tone: asking intentional questions.
Not lectures. Not quizzes. Just simple, thoughtful, sometimes silly questions that invite real answers and help us grow together as a family.
Because here’s the truth: The dinner table is more than just a place to refuel our bodies. It’s sacred ground. Jesus broke bread around a table. He told stories. He listened. He loved. And if we want to raise kids who feel known and connected—not just fed—we can follow His example.
So, whether you’re wrangling toddlers or navigating teen silence, here’s a tool to help:
“32 Questions You Can Ask Your Kids Around the Dinner Table.”
These questions range from funny to reflective. Some are just for laughs. Some might open the door to talk about faith, friendship, and even fears. But all of them help you know each other better—which, let’s be honest, is something we’re all hungry for.
Here’s a few questions to try tonight:
- If you could be famous for anything, what would it be?
- What’s something kind you saw someone do today?
- If God wrote you a letter, what do you think He’d say?
- What’s your favorite family memory so far?
- If you had to give everyone at this table a nickname, what would it be?
Click here to DOWNLOAD and PRINT the 32 Questions
(Put it on the fridge, keep it in a drawer, or tape it under your chair if that’s your vibe.)
Then, pick just one question each night. No pressure. No perfect answers. Just connection, one bite at a time.
Remember: The goal isn’t to force conversation—it’s to create space for it. Jesus didn’t rush the meal. He lingered. He listened. And He used food as a way to feed more than just the stomach.
So go ahead—set the table, say grace, and let the questions do the rest.
Bon appétit (and God bless your dinner table)!
