As the school year settles into its rhythm, it’s easy to assume everything is fine. But mama—have you paused to ask how your kids are really doing?
Not just academically. Not just behaviorally. But emotionally, spiritually, and relationally.
In the busy rhythm of school days filled with so much, it’s easy to focus on the outward things. But beneath it all, our children are more than students—they are tender souls, deeply loved by God. He’s entrusted us not only with their learning, but with the care of their hearts.
Proverbs 4:23 reminds us, “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” That applies to our kids too. Their hearts are being shaped every day—by teachers, peers, social media, and yes, by us.
So how do we check in meaningfully?
Ask the Deeper Questions
Instead of “How was school?” try:
- “Did anything make you feel really happy or really sad today?”
- “How can I be praying for you?”
- “Who did you sit with at lunch?”
- “Are you feeling any anxiety at school?”
- “What are some challenges you’re dealing with?”
- “Did you feel close to God today?”
These questions open doors to conversations that matter. They help us see beyond the surface and into the soul.
Invite God Into the School Year
Back-to-school season isn’t just about routines—it’s a spiritual reset. Pray over your children daily. Ask God to give them wisdom, courage, and discernment. Pray for their friendships, their teachers, and their identity in Christ.
And don’t forget to pray for yourself. Parenting is sacred work and eternal influence is in your hands. You’re not simply organizing days—you are a primary guide for your child’s soul. Their understanding of God, their walk with Christ, and their eternal future are being influenced by your words, your prayers, your example. It’s holy ground, and what an incredible privilege!
Create Space for Grace
If your child is struggling—academically, socially, or emotionally—don’t rush to fix it. Sit with them. Listen. Remind them that their worth isn’t in grades or popularity, but in being a beloved child of God.
Romans 12:12 says, “Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer.” That’s our posture as moms. Joyful. Patient. Prayerful.
You’re Doing Holy Work
This season may feel exhausting. But every lunch packed, every ride to school, every bedtime prayer—it’s holy. You’re sowing seeds that will bear fruit in God’s time.
So, check in. Slow down. Listen well. And trust that the God who sees your child sees you too.
